What s going on with this guy?
Author:
cfz
03 15th, 2010 in
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I met this guy 3 months ago; he looked a lot at me but got shy and blushed whenever I looked at him too; in the first few weeks we didn t talk when we met, he just looked at me a lot and nodded to say hello. Then I found out he asked my relatives a lot about me, if I have a bf and plans for vacation etc. We finally got a chance to talk to each other for 1/2 an hour and he asked me lots of things about my life and my vacation plans. He took my phone number and promised we d talk. It s been over 2 months now and...nothing. Ever since he got my number I met him in the street 5 times and he never hinted at us going out or something. He looked a lot at me, but I had to do the small talk. The last time I met him I confronted him: I asked him "what s going on? Shouldn t we talk or something?" He said: Don t worry, we ll talk, we ll talk. And then he offered to give me a lift, but I had to say No. I really can t tunderstand him. Every time he sees me he stares at me, his colleagues say he is single, and shy, and are convinced he is in love with me... but he doesn t do anything. I can t believe he is that shy... ISo I m thinking: is he playing games? Is he really not interested but he keeps saying we d talk bcz he s too coward to let me know the truth? Does he have other girls in mind too, and he can t decide? His colleagues say he s not involved. I don t know how to behave around him anymore, how to trigger some reaction. I even ignored him once and he did the same: just stared at me.It could be a number of things. his colleagues may not know if he is talking to someone, he just may be that shy!! or he doesn't want to be rejected if he did come out of his shell and say something. If I were you, I would let everything fall into place without pushing it... you never know he may come around or he may not cause he wants you but has something else he is dealing with at the time...this guy must be super shy, and finds it hard to talk to you i guess. well i guess its up to you to initiate a conversation and ask him how he feels, otherwise you'll go on wondering for sure.sounds Like he has some serious communication issues, lack of people skills etc due to being self concious and shy.
I think he Likes you but has NO IDEA how to get things rolling. if i were you Id be a bit freaked out by him, and let it go! I know i like someone with a bit of confidence and whos easy to talk to, and he doesnt seem to fit that catagory at all.....!I think you should try calling him first. Talk it over. Let it roll. Soon, you two could have the strongest relationship.it's ok. some guys take their time because they're shy. I bet this one has rarely or never had been on a date. It could take months, but if he likes you, he'll call sometime. My brother likes this girl, and he couldn't say a single word when he sees this girl he's been crushing on.The guy obviously has a big crush on you. You shouldn't see this behavior as strange because it is very typical among shy and inexperienced men. He hopes to be around you as much as he can so that maybe "magically" you too will end up together.
Assuming you don't care about your boyfriend and this guy really interests you, you should do one of two things:
1) Ask the guy out - I know this seems like he should do it but he's obviously too shy.
2) Try to never see him again until his crush is over - Then he will be acting more normally around you and maybe something will happen between you two.
If this guy is just creeping you out and you want to know what's going on with him out of concern or maybe a slight ego boost, Then whatsoever don't give him any signs of interest on your part so that he can shake off this impossible crush over you.this guy is very shy!
don't worry he's interested in u alright!
i think u need to show you're more interested in him though, you say he took your number, to me he's too shy to talk to you if u say he stares at u
why don't you make the moves? he must be interested if he asks your friends and family about u!
you should call him or arrange a date or something, of u don't he'll move on or you'll move on and nothing will get done. If u realy like this guy, give it a try what's the worst that could happen? just get him talking for now though :) trust me!#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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