Im worrying a little about this. Should i be??
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03 16th, 2010 in
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There's this girl that works at the same grocery store as me, that ive lately become attracted to. I really want to ask her out. Solast friday at work she was upstairs on one of my breaks with a couples guys i know, and i didn't really talk to her one on one but i said some funny things just in general and she laughed at some of it but not all of it. Then when i went back to work she asked me twice to show her where something was and i showed and again said some funny things and she laughed a little. Then saturday i went through her till to buy my lunch on a break and we joked about me not having a store card and laughed. Sunday i didnt talk to her personally at work but me and a couple friends at work joked with her twice today. Then when i got home after a while she started a IM with me on facebook and then added me to her MSN and we talked for maybe close to an hour and laughed and joked. The other day i didnt really talk to her, but i didnt really have a chance. She came up stairs on my break but i had to leave like 5 minutes after and then when i got off i went through her till and we sorta joked about the card thing again, sorta just a casual hello. Then that night we talked on MSN for maybe a half hour and joked and laughed. She then gave me her number and told me to text her, so we did. The other night we talked again on MSN for a bit. Yesterday she worked started right around when i got off so i couldn't talk to her but i walked by her till and gave her the "eyebrow raise" hello and she did it back. Tonight she startd the convo on MSN and we talked for about 45 minutes and i asked her if she would like to hang out at the mall on tuesday and she has two important tests at school wednesday that she has to study for or else she would. I then said maybe another time, and she said for sure. Thing is on sunday she wrote this blog on nexopia (like the canadian myspace) that said she "liked this boy" and other people replied asking who and she said his name. Also someone said i hope it goes well, and she said thanks. Also this same guy she blogged about has been writing on her page saying your super cute and stuff. Only thing is both their status' say single and just a week ago she blogged a quiz that asked if she was single and she said yes, she was. Then again last night we talked for over an hour through MSN and texting. She even told me a little about how some of the guys at her school can be assholes to her. Im freaking out a little here, is she taken. Please help?????
PS:Im 18 and shes 17 if that mattersYou really did not have to give us the " play by play " action report just to ask a simple question. So if you did that here, then there is probably a lot of this going on when you're chatting with her - that could be cause for her to not want to be serious with you on the same level as you're hoping.
I hope you don't do that. If you want to know if she will go out with you, ask her straight. No games a straight question, face to face. No email, or IM, of through a friend or any other cr ap like that. Man - up and make the opportunity for you and her to be at the same place at the same time - then ask her straight. If she says no, press for a reason, just so you'll know.
If she says she just dont think it will work then it has to be something about you that you are doing that rubs her wrong. Maybe bore her with a long-a ss approach to a simple question ( don't drag it out).
It may not hurt if you bought one single rose to hand to her as you ask ... Well I can't really speak for her actions. However, I think you should formally ask her out (Not to the mall) on a date (Movies, dinner, play pool, bowling...etc.). You obviously like her...and I think you should just pretty much find out the answer to your question by asking her out. Good Luck....You sound like a great guy! Sounds like she's just playin' the game!i think that she is trying to say "i'm wanted by everyone so you better take me now"
if she keeps blogging about other guys it just means thats she wants you to take action or somethingits soundas like she is aiming for a friend relationship with you but give it time and maybe you will found out more about how she feels
plz answer my question
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...eek, sounds like you've moved into friend status. joking and such is good, but too much without a bit of flirting will lead to this..
but she and that guy might just like eachother, and neither of them have made a move yet.. sooo
that mean there's a chance for you!! keep trying. :) but be a bit more aggressive, especially if there's another guy.
sounds like they just like eachother though and are 'talking', not dating.. especially if their statuses say single..
but yeah, I'd be a bit more aggressive if I were you, if you want to be with her.. and try to avoid the friendship status if you want to date her!Erm, if she likes another guy you don't really have much chance to date her. But maybe she wants to be friends.It sounds like she's not taken, yet. But, for the record if she says publicly that she likes some guy, you may want to back off trying to ask her out for a bit. She may be doing the "friend" thing with you and that means that she really likes you as a friend. Just take care so your feelings don't get hurt.She isn't taken just yet. I wouldn't wait much longer. Ask her out. She seems interested. She likes you, but maybe her eyes are set on this guy. I say you keep talking to her like this until she makes a real pass at you. Talk to a bunch of girls in the mean time and keep her close just in case things get friendlier with the two of you. You're 18, don't worry!nah shes probably talkin bout u she just thought ud read it and find out sooo i say give it a shot and the one year differances in age dont matterIf she only likes a guy, and he tells her she's cute she might not be taken. Just because she says stuff like that, and he responds back doesn't me they are a couple.
I would just ask her out again. I'm a girl and I hate hinting at boys. It makes me feel desperate.I think she may be talking about you.. She doesnt talk to you about her guy friends right? You must be it, never hurts to try. Give it a shot, go out for a movie or coffee. Make it feel like a date.NO she is not taken... she is single but had a crush on this guy. Dont put so much thought into it. Thats the mistake people always do. She may only just want to be your friend, she may think you are cool. But either way it doesnt seem like she is with this guy they are just talking as well which means she is doing nothing wrong =)Wow kind of confusing lol..well it sounds like she could be playing games but, if she gave you her number and talked to you as much as you say she did..then she must be attracted to you? hmm..It does sound like she as a bf as yet so be a man and ask her if she would like to be your gf. To me it seen that she really likes you. Good luck.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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