Do you think he might be into me?
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03 16th, 2010 in
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I went on a double date this week and it was a blind date for me. Our mutual friends set us up. He's so sweet, very sincere, and quite a gentleman. I think he might be into me but I'm not totally sure. We started texting last night and I told him I was going to the store across town to buy some stuff. He told me the store he works at close to my house is still open and that he just got off work. He said he'd wait for me until I got to the store so he could walk around and talk with me while I shop. I did and we had fun but were still shy. Then he asked me to come over to his new apartment tonight to watch a movie and have some pizza. After the movie we ended up sitting there talking until 3am and we had so much in common. We talked about everything from family life to our exes...I met his mom briefly because she lives next door. He tried to tickle me but I wasn't too happy about it so he stopped haha. I could tell he was a bit nervous but it was cute. My back started to hurt so I laid on my side...then he came and laid on his side facing me and just listened to me ramble on about stupid stuff. There were times where our eyes met but he didn't look away. He just kept looking into my eyes until I'd start busting out laughing again. (I laugh a lot when i'm nervous/jittery/excited and he knows that). I think he might be into me but I'm not sure. I really wanted to lay my head on his shoulder but I was really nervous about making that move. I wonder if he's into me because he didn't really make any moves. However when he tickled me and i pushed his hand away we ended up holding hands on "accident" until I pulled away because I chickened out. AHHH What's everyones opinion on this? Advice from the guys is ESPECIALLY appreciated since they're more in tune with the male psyche haha. thanks :)i think u already know the answer
i definitley do.. yes hes completely into u.
if he's shy and a quiet gentlemen then that means u can rule out the possibilty that he's just flirting and playing with u..
if he's sincere.. then that meant everything he did was sincere.. and trying to tickle a girl is the oldest trick in the bookYes, he likes you. Im not a guy so im not 100% sure, but im 99.9% sure. I dont think a guy would do that unless he liked a girl. Good luck with the relationship!Sounds to me like you're giving him mixed signals. You agree to go on a blind date with and you find him sweet,sincere and a gentleman. Then you both show a mutual interest in each other by texting.He offers to wait for you after work and later invites you to his apartment, which you accept. You stay at his apartment until the wee hours of the morning,
Then when he tries to show his interests by subtle touches (tickling, "accidenally" holding hands), you push him away or pull away from him.
The only mistakes he made was introducing you to his mother (another indication he likes you) after knowing you for such a brief time, and not offering you a massage when your back was hurting.
If you really like the guy, let him hold your hand. If you don't like being tickled, tell him. OTOH, if you don't mind it, tickle him back. Don't be afraid to show him little affection once in a while. a small hug or kiss might get things rolling the way you want it to roll. Most of all have a little fun while you can. A little pillow fight or wrestling match can show both of you a lot whether the attraction is mutual or not, just as cuddling on the couch does when watching a movie or laying next to each other and talking.
Good luck and I hope things work out for both of you.He most certainly is.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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